
Kitty Kilian, ‘And you think YOUR family’s dysfunctional?’, mixed media, 10 x 15 cm / 4 x 6
When I was ten I expected lots of things to happen when I grew up – these are the things that didn’t:
- I would be smashingly beautiful
- I would be very, very sensible
- I would marry in a white gown (when the time came I refused to do so)
- I would have lots of children and all of us would always be immensely happy (in the end two sufficed)
- I would live in a huge white mansion surrounded by gardens and have two cleaning maids (I know, I was naive at 10)
- We would eat sweets all day long
- We would watch television all day long
- We would never take walks, and certainly never in forests on Sunday afternoons
- I would be a famous novelist
- I would never grow old






Oh my, I wish I could hang this one in my house but I think the family would disapprove! Oh yes, we were naive back then at ten. Though I did know I wanted to be an artist, at least I got that part right!
Alleen punt 4 en 10, zijn niet (meer?) te realiseren. Ik zie echt nog mogelijkheden voor al je andere wensen..
Met een beetje adoptie zelfs punt 4 nog wel.. maar mijn wensen zijn ook veranderd ;-)
It’s funny how we expect to be when we are grown up, but interesting how life turns out differently. I think I thought I would be an international show jumper (quite hard without a horse) and for sure would be married with kids (both of which I have consciously declined to do), I would never have imagined I could be an artist, that was so out of my experience.
Fun list. Nice to reflect upon. I know I thought life would be easy (actually I think I carried that one all the way through to Uni until my parents pointed out that as I wanted to move out of home I would also need to get a job to pay rent! I what?!) . I too realise lots of things I wanted then I have also conciously avoided now. I still eat sweets all day long though – and it still upsets my dentist ; )
Check 1, 2, 7, 8, 9, 10. None came true, I’m starting to doubt nr 10. Tried 7 for a while, didn’t like it in the end. I’m trying again with the internet. For now it holds up. I was wrong on 8. This post reminds me of this picture:
Ha ha! You never tried # 3?