Where would you be without your hairdresser? Lost. Lost in the furthest corner of your house. Crying. With a scarf wrapped around your head. My hairdresser is called André And he works wonders with his scissors. I met him when I was 25 and still a student. I had to save up [...]
You’ve got your horse-girls
Cat You’ve got your horse-girls. The obnoxious type who pronounce their r’s in the back of their throat who clutch their whips too tightly, that type of girl. And you’ve got your cat-boys. The sweet type who really want to cuddle and caress but who will never admit it not even to the [...]
Woerden castle april 22
(There was an earlier text here with a rant about the Premise MemberSite plugin I could not get to work, but I have since taken it down because.. well.. basically I was just whining – I was under some pressure because I had kept too short a deadline. No-one’s mistake but my own, really).
A sincere word of warning for those who will not read this post
A good friend almost choked this morning when I told her I am hosting a webinar later this week. She does not believe in social media. ‘Go do something real again’, she pleaded; ‘if ever I read your stuff it deals with nothing. Writing online about writing online.. what’s the use?’ I laughed. She is [...]
Joy, Seduction, To Hell
After that, on March 31st, they will be at the Kunststripbeurs, Janskerk, Utrecht.
I never ever want to hear
the word tribe again
Do you have it, too, or am I the only one? If you are in, say, a church full of people (not to worship, for if you are like me you don’t do gods, but may be to listen to a choir) – are you afraid you will speak up? Tell the whole congregation what [...]
How Jon Morrow from
Copyblogger overwhelmed me
Since I started taking Jon Morrow’s Guestblogging course I have stopped reading newspapers. I have stopped reading novels, too. And picking up the bedrooms. Actually, I have stopped doing nearly anything. Except sit at my computer and write. I am pretty smitten. Jon sent out an email recently, apologizing to all of us, students, [...]
You. Yes, you.
I want you to unsubscribe…
Yes. Your eyes are fine. And I still love you. Yet.. I want you to unsubscribe from my mailing list, if you hate the changes I am going to make. (What? you shout in agony, Changes Again?) Again. If I, at 51, have finally learned one thing it is
On perfect mothers
Kitty Kilian, Perfect Mother, Mixed media, 17 x 24 cm, 2011 I am sure you expected to be one, too. A perfect mother. Why else have kids? To make them just as miserable as you yourself were when you were 8, 12, 16? Sure, I am exaggerating. But only just a little Of [...]
How to Write so Fuckin’ Good your Readers Will Beg for More (copy from Blogstylers.nl)
Hey Friends, Since I am still spending all my time working on the new website (see last post) I thought I might as well translate my first post for you, my English speaking pals. Just this once. Here it is: To be honest, you have sort of had it. With blogging. [...]
…And yet another website: The Blog Salon
My arms are a lot better, thanks, but still no new art from me. The reason is: two friends and I have started a new blog here in Holland (De Blogsalon.nl) since we realised, after doing some research, that Holland hardly knows the phenomenon of guestblogging. Even worse: there are hardly any blogs that [...]
Oliebollen and an update
Oliebollen van at the Neude, town center. Picture by KK. Oliebollen: balls of dough the size of meatballs, fried and served hot with icing sugar. Traditionally a New Years dish You know the year is drawing to a close in Holland when oliebollen vans arrive, all over the country. Well, they have arrived. Made me [...]
Guestpost (in Dutch): Hoe heurt het eigenlijk op Social Media?
Vandaag staat mijn eerste gastpost op Papaver Communicatie: lees hier.
Francis Kilian: Oil paintings of women
Francis Kilian, Maria met de anjer, oil painting 2011, 1.40 x 1 m Featuring artists I admire every month without featuring my sister Francis Kilian seemed unnatural. For all through my life Francis has been my shining example of an artist who lives and breathes her own art. The women she has been painting all [...]
On Ignoring Everybody, throwing Cube Grenades and Why Hugh McLeod is wrong about marketing your art online
By Hugh McLeod This cartoon is not a cartoon. It is a ‘social object’. Says Hugh MacLeod, a successful American copywriter, cartoonist, blogger and book author. A social object, he says, is something that causes people to talk, share and connect on social media. In short: a conversation piece. Or, since we live [...]
10 unwritten blog posts I yearn to read
How to write a blog that is so witty it makes Sonia Simone smile Why social networks are not a waste of time after all How to become a better cook in five minutes Why content sucks The most important thing about life – that everyone is keeping from you The secret to becoming a [...]
Can you lift a jar of peanut butter?
Jan van Kampenhout, click image for link Can you lift a jar of peanut butter? Ten years ago, I couldn’t. I could not lift a pot full of soup either. Let alone my then two-year-old son. Around the year 2000 I had been working on my computer non-stop for about fifteen years, while I [...]
A Shakespearean sonnet for a bitch
Here’s the sonnet. (Shakespearean,: 10 syllables to each line, 3 quatrains followed by a couplet of two lines with volta). And for those of you who missed the blog post in which I mention Ming-Zhu and her use of language, click here. A sonnet for a bitch who says fuck One day I [...]
Kathryn Clark: a politically motivated fiber artist
Kathryn Clark is a fiber artist from San Francisco, CA. I met her online, in 2010, and we have been digital friends ever since. We did a fun project together last summer, after which she took off doing very interesting, intelligent and politically inspired things with textile. Her recent series of pretty abstract quilts deals [...]
To hell with anything unrefined
Kitty Kilian, To hell with anything unrefined, 10 x 15 cm/ 4 x 6 in, mixed media Don Marquis was an American writer/columnist who in 1916 the introduced the poetic cockroach Archy in his column in The New York Sun. Archy types poems on Don Marquis’s typewriter, at night. He has a friend called [...]
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